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Fun Last Minute 'Game Show' Advent Calendar Idea for Big Kids { Free Printable }

Free Printable Game Show Advent Calendar Activity  |  3 Garnets & 2 Sapphires
 Our children are now 11, 11, and 14.  If you have older kids like us, that means you might be running out of ideas for ways to make the annual tradition of an advent calendar a fresh and fun experience.  We have done everything from puzzle pieces to Lego minifigure parts, from Christmas books to dollar scratch tickets.

Since all 3 of our children are gamers, I thought it would be fun this year to give them a way to earn in-game currency.  Usually, I am not a huge fan of spending real life money on virtual items, so I think this will be a real treat for them. Since we have three children, I'll give each child one guess at the answer to one 'game show' question each day.  Only one child needs to answer correctly for all three to win the prize, which I have decided to be one dollar per child to go towards in-game currency or a gaming membership.

DIY Game Show Advent Calendar Activity . . .
Free Printable Game Show Cards Non-Candy Advent Calendar Filler  |  3 Garnets & 2 Sapphires
Step 1.  Download the PDF below.  Then either print out four copies of the blank cards or digitally add text and save four versions with six different game cards on each version.  Do not include the answers to the game show questions on the card, but rather keep a list of them in a safe place.
TIP 1: I found age-appropriate Christmas-themed riddles online and used one riddle per card.  Other ideas would be trivia questions, math problems, brain twisters, tongue twisters they'd need to say 3 times quickly, etc . . .  If this activity is a hit this year, next year I might try Star Wars trivia questions.
Free Printable Fun DIY Game Show Cards Advent Calendar Activity  |  3 Garnets & 2 Sapphires

Step 2. Carefully cut out your 24 cards.  Then roll them into tiny little scrolls and secure them with curling ribbon, gold cordinexpensive Christmas stickers, Christmas washi tape, or tiny elastics.
TIP #2:  If you don't have the dexterity (or the desire) to roll and secure 24 tiny scrolls, other options would be to merely fold the cards in half  or into thirds, or to put them in business card sized envelopes.
Step 3.  Put one scroll into each day of your advent calendar. I also always include one small piece of candy for each child, but that is certainly not required.
DIY Game Show Advent Calendar Activity  |  3 Garnets & 2 Sapphires

What ideas do you have for making an advent calendar more fun and interesting?
Tell us in a comment here.


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4 Ways to Help Your Child Be More Responsible

Reminder tags remind kids to do important things when you aren't there  |  3 Garnets & 2 Sapphires
Like many parents, sometimes I marvel at the lack of responsibility my children show.  This is particularly true with my oldest, who is currently 12.  He can be pretty forgetful at times and I can't follow him around for the rest of his life reminding him about this and that.  Here are 4 strategies I've employed to help our children become more responsible.  Some of them work immediately, but others work over time.

4 Strategies to Help Your Child Be More Responsible . . .

1.  Reminders That Go With Your Child - For times when your child is away from you, and does not have you there to remind them to do something important or time-sensitive, such as turning in their permission slip for a field trip by the deadline, try to put a reminder somewhere where they are likely to see it.  My son has tried writing things on his hand, but that only worked for him half the time.  What seemed to work better was my putting a reminder tag on his backpack.  He carries his backpack with him all day at middle school.  If he vows not to take the tag off until after the task is done, this strategy works very well.

You could also set an alarm on your child's watch or smartphone, but this should only be done when the alarm is not disruptive.  An alarm going off during the school day would likely be frowned upon by teachers.

2.  Train Your Child to Be Time-Conscious - This is something I just started doing and shame on me for not thinking of doing this sooner.  The first thing you need to do is make sure your child has a clock they can check easily, whether it's a watch, smartwatch, fitness tracker, or a mobile device.  Then instead of asking them to stop what they're doing immediately so they can do an assigned chore, you could tell them that they don't need to stop watching TV now, but they need to start the dishes by 7pm.  If they start the dishes by 7pm, then they can watch TV for another half an hour when they're done.  If they do not start the dishes by 7pm, then there are no more electronics for the rest of the evening.  So far, this has worked well with my 9 year old daughter.  Her twin brother and older brother are coming along more slowly.

3.  Adopt a Pet - Adopting a pet of any kind takes a commitment from the whole family.  It does teach children responsibility, but it could take years.  I've spent two years teaching our children to care for these two rescued cuties and to put the dogs' needs before their own.  Even after two years, they don't always remember to feed the dogs and give them fresh water before they sit down to breakfast themselves, but they do remember more often than not.  I've also started to find that they will occasionally notice when the water bowl is nearly empty and will take the initiative to fill it.

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4.  Use Checklists Regularly - This is something you can start with your children early on.  If they haven't learned to read yet, you could use checklists with images instead.  Getting ready for school in the morning warranted a checklist at our house.  This, again, takes time to develop a habit of using the list and then going back through to double-check that nothing was missed.  I'd say it took our children a year and a half to get in the habit of using our morning checklist and not missing anything about 90% of the time.  Don't let your children fall into the habit of looking at the list and checking an item off as completed without actually going to check that it is actually done.  This was one of my children's biggest challenges.


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4 ways to teach your children to be more responsible  |  3 Garnets & 2 Sapphires

Do you have tips and tricks for teaching children to be more responsible?  Share them with us in a comment here.

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Giveaway: Lisa & Lulu Cerone Join Forces with Monster High to Inspire "Ghouls Helping Ghouls" Philanthro-Parties [CLOSED]


Thank you to Monster High for providing a very special Ghouls Helping Ghouls package to myself and one 3G2S reader to help inspire our favorite ghouls to turn their passion into action by giving back.  All opinions expressed are my own.

Since the age of 10, Lulu Cerone has been a mentor to young children after having raised over $4,000 for the earthquake victims in Haiti.  She did this by organizing a full-scale school-wide fundraiser, while being inspired and encouraged by her mother, Lisa Cerone, the entire way.  That's how the LemonAID Warriors and philanthro-parties were born.

Fast-forward 4 years, the now 14 year old Lulu has joined forces with the ever-popular Mattel brand Monster High to inspire tweens to participate in the Ghouls Helping Ghouls initiative and to enter to win a $1,000 Skullership for their favorite charity by throwing a philanthro-party!  Lulu even allowed herself to be transformed into the Monster High character Boo-Lu Cerone.  Watch the video below to learn more about Lulu, Ghouls Helping Ghouls, philanthro-parties, and the Ghouls Helping Ghouls Skullership . . .


More About the Ghouls Helping Ghouls Skullership contest . . . 
  • Monster High, starting April 15th through June 9, will give Philanthro-party hosts a chance to win a $1,000 cash donation to their cause of choice.
  • Fans are asked to submit a short description and photo around how they most represent the spirit of “Ghouls Helping Ghouls,” through Philanthro-parties.
To learn more about Ghouls Helping Ghouls, to find tips from Lulu on how to throw a successful Philanthro-party, and to enter to win the Ghouls Helping Ghouls Skullership contest, visit GhoulsHelpingGhouls.com.

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Good luck in the drawing!


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The MotionArtist Animation Graphics Software by Smith Micro is Fun and Challenging!


Thank you to Smith Micro for providing a complimentary product sample for us to base this review upon.  All opinions expressed are my own.

MotionArtist is a recently launched software from Smith Micro that helps artists bring their creations to life. MotionArtist enables users to make videos using photos, text, and other media. These can be used as interactive presentations, comics, and anything else you can dream up. MotionArtist is a software where the sky is the limit for making amazing animations yourself.

We received a download code for MotionArtist and I was thrilled to use this for my 11 year old, Avery, as part of his homeschool art subject. Avery is not much of an artist in the old-fashioned sense, but he is great with technology so I was excited to add this to his widening list of computer art skills. He was very excited to start and had many visions of what he could create using MotionArtist. Sadly, this was harder to use than he’d bargained for so it’s requiring much more time from him than he had expected, but that’s not to say he’s not learning. It will take a while to completely master the software because it does so much but I have no doubt that he will fully grasp it eventually.

His first couple projects were pretty rough and not terribly interesting, but his third turned out pretty good if you ask me. His silly little “BACON” project is just a fluffy little fun thing he worked on for many hours but it gives a very basic concept of what you can accomplish with some practice.

MotionArtist is a very well setup and user-friendly software, but that’s not to say it’s not complicated. I am pretty good with computers myself and it’s hard for me too. If you have a need for this type of software, I have no doubt that MotionArtist would be great for your projects because it can do many different types of animations and is pretty comprehensive.


The "Bacon" Project . . . 


Their website, www.motionartist.smithmicro.com, has tons of information on what you can do as well as samples and tutorials. We haven’t found any bugs or had any trouble with the software, which is great for something so new. Over all, we have been very happy with MotionArtist and look forward to continuing to learn and eventually master it.

Motion Artist can be purchased at www.motionartist.smithmicro.com and on Amazon.com for $59.99.


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Simplifying Our Daily Lives with the On Track! Responsibility and Behavior System by Kenson Kids


Thank you to Kenson Kids for providing a complimentary product sample for us to base this review upon.  All opinions expressed are my own.

When our oldest son turned 6 years old, he started receiving a small weekly allowance in exchange for completing certain tasks.  Since our twins turned 6 in January, I had been looking for a new system that would allow us to track all 3 children's performances as far as behavior and responsibility goes.  I was referred to the Kenson Kids website by a friend and fellow-parent on Facebook.  She actually uses the "I Can Do It" Reward Chart for her own children who are preschool-aged and younger.  While I was checking out this reward chart, the On Track! Responsibility System caught my eye.

Although the On Track! Responsibility System was designed for tweens, I still thought it was a much better fit for our 6, 6, and 9 year old children.  The reward chart was much too simple.  We needed something more complicated to help simplify our lives . . . if that makes sense.

There are four main components to the On Track! System . . . the Family Rules, the Master Chore List, the Daily Checklists, and the Point Registries.  The system may appear complicated at first, but it turned out to be fairly simple if you follow the included Instructional Guide.

As recommended, we held a family meeting to take suggestions for the Family Rules.  There is even a worksheet in the Instructional Guide to help you with this.  Although we tried to have the children complete the provided sentences, they just ended up brainstorming rules instead.  I wrote all the suggestions down on the worksheet.  Then my husband and I chose which suggestions we should include and added a few more that we thought were missing.  Then I wrote all the rules on the laminated Family Rules sheet with the included dry erase marker.

The next thing we did was to fill in the laminated Master Chore List.  We were very careful to make sure each child received age-appropriate chores, the chores were fairly distributed, and to not have any one child have too much to do in one day.  Some chores we assigned our 6 year old twins were cleaning the table, chairs, and floor after each meal, giving the cats fresh food and water, and sweeping small spaces like the bathrooms.  Some of the chores we assigned to our 9 year old son were emptying the kitchen trash, doing the recycling, and cleaning the bathrooms.

The My Daily Checklist for each child focuses on what the instructional guide calls the Activities of Daily Living (ADL).  Much of the items on each child's list are the same because all 3 children have similar routines.  The main differences are really on the chore list.

The Point Registries are much like a bank book.  I fill this out every night after verifying what has been done and what has not been done.  Also, throughout the day, I make notes on a separate piece of paper about any bonus points or any lost points earned by each child.  My children can earn extra points by doing learning activities above and beyond their homework, being generous and good sharers, and being especially helpful to another member of the family.  They can lose points by breaking any of the house rules and not completing the items on their daily checklists.

At the end of the week, we will see how many points each child has.  They can redeem their points for items in the store (a stash of small toys) or for a monetary allowance ($0.05 per point).  After the children receive their allowances, they will put $0.50 into their donate container, $1.00 in their savings container, and the rest into their spend container.  You can learn more about making allowance cups here.

All four of the above components fit neatly into this wall organizer.  The Master Chore List and the Family Rules are visible all the time.  The My Daily Checklists are kept in the lower pockets.  Surprisingly, the dry erase marker did not wipe off from inserting and removing the charts from the canvas pockets.  I wrote the children's names on the outside of their registries on both edges on the front and on the back so that they could see their names no matter which way they are put into the organizer's pocket.  (Note:  The On Track! Organizer comes with 2 My Daily Checklists, registries, and dry erase markers.  Additional ones can be purchased separately.)

There were other aspects of this responsibility and behavior system that we chose not to use at this time.  Since two of our children are younger, we wanted to make things a little simpler.  For older children, there are other tools, such as banking points, penalties for losing a set amount of points, a Self Reflection Worksheet, and more.

So far, all 3 of our children are doing well with the On Track! System.  They are all excited to have set responsibilities and to be able to earn a monetary allowance.  Having an older child to help the younger ones has been extremely helpful.  Since many of their daily checklist items are the same, the older child reminds the two younger to do the tasks when he does his.

The On Track! Responsibility System is currently selling at a Special Introductory Price of $44.95.   To learn more about this and other Kenson Kids products, visit www.KensonKids.com.



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My Photos: Our Baby Turned 9!


This weekend, our first-born turned 9 years old!  I really thought it would be like any other birthday, but it was more bittersweet than I had expected.  I realized that our son is no longer a little boy, but is now a young man.  He is officially a 'tween.  Although I am slightly sad, I am also very proud of how Jake has turned out.  Because he is the oldest, he was the one we tested out parenting strategies on and he still turned out to be extremely intelligent, handsome, outgoing, and has such a good heart.

We will be celebrating all 3 of our January babies' birthdays by going to Coco Key Water Park this month, but we did go out to TGI Friday's (our son's choice) for dinner after a trip to the LEGO Store to spend some gift cards our children had received for Christmas.  After dinner, we sneaked in a trip to Toys"R"Us to spend a couple of gift cards he had received for his birthday.  According to Jake, it was a great birthday!

Instead of birthday cake, the children each had "Cups of Dirt", complete with chocolate pudding, crumbled Oreos, and gummy worms.  Jake also received a birthday serenade from the TGI Friday's crew.


Time for gifts!  I'm surprised Luke could keep what his gift was a secret from Jake for so long.


Jake has been wanting the board game Sorry since he had so much fun playing it at the Boston Social Media Holiday Party.


This was the perfect birthday card for our Fruit Ninja fan!


I just couldn't wait for Jake to see the memory box I had designed for him from the Paper Coterie.  I think he thought it was pretty darn cool!  (I think the Toys"R"Us gift card we tucked inside made it even cooler.)


If I'm feeling this way now, I am probably going to be a wreck when he turns 10 next year . . .



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Kidzworld Provides a Safe Social Network for Kids Ages 9 to 14


Although our oldest is son is still a year and a half away from officially becoming a "tween", he is extremely computer-literate and has been using a laptop since the age of two.  Needless to say, I already have my eyes peeled for a safe social network for kids.  Some may think I am being too proactive, but since he has already asked for a Facebook account, I would have to disagree.  He also enjoys chatting online, but sooner or later, he is going to realize that chatting with his parents is just not going to be enough anymore.  When that time comes, I will most likely register our son on a site like Kidzworld rather than Facebook.


Kidzworld offers tweens and teens free online games, news, trivia, videos, and more about their favorite celebrities, shows, movies, sports, . . . you name it.  This site even has a whole section devoted to school-related topics.  There are also boards for posting about anything from food to jokes and riddles to extreme sports. The Kidzworld Zone tab conveniently gives you a summary of the most recent activities sitewide.

What is wonderful about a social network for kids is that there is some anonymity, so kids are more comfortable to be themselves and speak their minds.  On the same note, you just never know who is really behind each screen name.  This brings us to the topic of chatting, something that concerns parents the most.  Direct chatting or chat rooms allows a child to really put themselves out there.  Although it can be fun, it also makes the child vulnerable to strangers.  Kidzworld protects their users by prohibiting harassment, discrimination, spamming, swearing, rude, gross, or offensive comments, sexually explicit comments, and yelling (i.e. typing in all caps).  Most importantly, there is a reminder on each page warning kids not to give out any personal or identifying information.  The chat room is only open during set hours so that it can be closely moderated.  There is also an "ignore" feature if one member no longer wants to hear from another.

As a parent, I would feel comfortable to allow my son to become a member of Kidzworld when he turns 9.  There seems to be enough rules in place to prevent bullying and other things that can negatively affect a child.  Of course, I would need to pay attention during my son's first few sessions in the chat room until I am satisfied that the moderators are doing their jobs well by keeping the environment free of bullies and predators.

To learn more about the Kidzworld social network, visit Kidzworld.com and Kidzworld on Facebook.




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Build-A-Bear Workshop's Huggable Heroes Rewards Children Who Give Back

It is that time of year again . . . time to nominate a child you know for the Build-A-Bear Huggable Heroes scholarship! The main requirement is the child you nominate must have given back somehow to his or her own community or to another community worldwide.

Ten children will be selected to each receive $7500 in an educational scholarship plus $2500 to go to the 501(c)(3) charity of the winner's choice. Each winner will also be invited to St. Louis for a 2-day, 1-night stay, where they will be honored for their achievements in community service.

To qualify, the child must be between the ages of 8 and 18. Anyone age 8 and up can nominate another child or themselves. You can either download and print a Huggable Heroes nomination form or pick one up at your local Build-A-Bear Workshop store location. You can also submit your Huggable Heroes nomination online.


The 2009 Huggable Heroes

All nominations must be received by February 26th, 2010. Please visit the Huggable Heroes website to read the official contest rules.


Thank you to Build-A-Bear Workshop for providing the information to help me with this article. I did not receive compensation for sharing this information with my readers.



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10 Tips For Preventing Cyber Bullying

You may or may have not heard recent talk about cyber bullying and cyber stalking. This is something real that is happening to adult bloggers. If it is scary for an adult, then you can imagine how it must feel for a tween or a teen to be a victim of such a thing.

Here are ten tips offered by Ellen Ohlenbusch, a mom who also happens to be President of McGruff Safeguard, on how to protect your child from being a victim of cyber bullying . . .


1. Keep computers in an open area – not in a child’s bedroom

2. Tell kids to keep passwords safe, private and difficult to guess – no pet names as passwords!

3. Don’t allow your child to maintain multiple accounts with alias names

4. Teach children to respect others online, as they would in person

5. Discuss bullying and the emotional impact it creates

6. Discuss what content is and is not appropriate to share online

7. Tell kids that what they post online is “out there” forever – they can’t control how other people will use their photos or information

8. Discuss how ‘piling’ on is not appropriate. That while they may not start something, if they see cyber bullying happening, they should not contribute.

9. Set a clear standard/example for your children to follow

10. Install a parental monitoring software that sends email alerts if cyber bullying is detected
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As a tool to assist parents, McGruff Safeguard offers a FREE parental monitoring software that analyzes emails, chats and IMs, and social networking websites. To learn more about this software, visit GoMcGruff.com .

Thank you to McGruff Safeguard and Middleberg Communications for providing the information shared in this article.